The Autism Internet Modules were developed
    with one aim in mind: to make comprehensive, up-
    to-date, and usable information on autism
    accessible and applicable to educators, other
    professionals, and families who support
    individuals with autism spectrum disorders  
    (ASD). Written by experts from across the U.S.,
    all online modules are free, and are designed to
    promote understanding of, respect for, and
    equality of persons with ASD.  For more
    information, please visit:
    www.autisminternetmodules.org

    Evidence-Based Practice and Autism in the
    Schools

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    org/pdf/NAC%20Ed%20Manual_FINAL.pdf


    Temple Grandin: The world needs all kinds of
    minds

    www.ted.
    com/talks/temple_grandin_the_world_needs_all_
    kinds_of_minds.html

    Attached is a workbook forwarded from the
    Arlington County Virginia PRC, which would be
    good for many families to give to their teachers
    who may not be familiar with autism or their
    child.  It gives a good rundown of the behaviors
    and challenges of working with a child with ASD.
    FEAT-Handbook.


    Communication is the key to make back to school
    easier

    Back to school for my blue-eyed, mischievous,
    non-verbal son with autism always seems
    overwhelming and scary, but open communication
    and open minds make the transition go more
    smoothly.

    Because communication and social skills are huge
    challenges for my son, I try to plan every
    possible eventuality and write lots and lots of
    “helpful” notes to the school team in place.

    By preparing overviews of how my son is at home,
    and laying out my hopes and fears, I let the
    school team know I'm a partner in their efforts
    to help my son succeed. We both keep our e-mails
    flowing and I check in several times a week. (And
    then I send a heartfelt “thank you” note to let
    the school team know how much I appreciate all
    the hard work and caring on behalf of my son!)

    If you're dealing with similar back-to-school
    issues, I hope you'll download and use these
    sample forms. These helpful forms, assembled by
    experts at the Indiana Resource Center for
    Autism, can be shared with your child's school to
    open the lines of communication. They list daily
    activities, track progress and provide an
    overview of what your child does day in and day
    out.

    All of us at the Autism Society wish you the best
    for a wonderful school year experience.

    Sincerely,

    Marguerite Kirst Colston
    Vice President, Constituent Relations
    Mother of a son with autism

    New teaching tools aid visually impaired students
    in learning math
    www.sciencedaily.com/
    releases/2010/03/100315172218.htm

    Mastering mathematics can be daunting for many
    children, but researchers have found that
    children with visual impairments face
    disproportionate challenges learning math, and by
    the time they reach the college level, they are
    significantly under-represented in science,
    technology, mathematics and engineering
    disciplines.


    Parent Tips from Pathfinders for Autism

    Back to School

    August 2009

    What parent doesn't love that Staples
    commercial that so cleverly uses the well known
    Christmas carol, "It's the Most Wonderful Time
    of the Year" with the parent who is celebrating
    that the kids are going back to school? While it
    may be a celebration for some parents, some of
    us worry about the transition for our kids, and
    the stress they may be feeling about a new class,
    new friends, and maybe even a new school. So
    let's prepare now to help make that first day
    back to school a great (or tolerable if that's
    your realistic hope) experience.

    Treat the first day of school like a holiday
    Build up excitement for the first day of school
    like you do for Christmas or your child's
    birthday. Circle it on the calendar, count down
    the days, pick out a special outfit (or item the
    child can take to school), and plan a celebration
    for that afternoon or evening. Encourage your
    child to participate in buying school supplies and
    let her help pick her materials. After all, who
    wants to be forced to carry around a High
    School Musical binder when your heart belongs
    to The Jonas Brothers?

    Visit the school
    Show your child his classroom and even his locker
    and desk if possible. If you go before the
    classroom is set up, go back closer to the first
    day so that your child will have a chance to see
    how the class will look when he gets there that
    first day. Take a walk through the halls
    practicing the routes he will travel to the various
    classes. While you're there, take pictures that
    your child can refer to back at home. If this is a
    new school for your child, you may also want to
    consider visiting the child's previous school and
    reinforcing the message that he's not changing
    schools because people at the old school didn't
    want him. Sometimes our kids have anxieties over
    these feelings, but they aren't able to articulate
    those fears.

    Meet with the teacher and inclusion helper
    Ask for a copy of a typical day's schedule so
    that you can prepare your child with social
    stories, visual schedules and discussions. Let the
    teacher meet your child and go over your child's
    reactions, learning styles, favorite things, and
    what challenges and frustrates your child. Make
    sure you share with the teacher systems that
    work for you at home. If you have charts or tools
    you use at home, offer a duplicate set for the
    classroom for consistency for your child. Ask the
    teacher if you may take a picture of her to have
    at home so that her face will be even more
    familiar to your child on that first day.

    Make an 'All About Me' book
    A portfolio of pictures, stories, favorite things
    and anything else the child feels is important to
    share with other students and teachers could be
    a great tool for introducing your child.

    Play school
    Go through typical school activities, practice
    walking up to school, unpacking, taking jackets on
    and off, walking quietly through a hallway. Keep
    them used to the feeling of "school" even if it's
    at home.

    Reset the clocks
    If you've allowed your child to stay up later
    during the summer, start rolling back bedtime
    now so that when school starts your child will
    have an easier time falling into the new schedule.

    Use an alarm clock to wake the child
    Let's face it - how many kids want to get up for
    school? Let the alarm clock be the "bad guy"
    waking your child, not you. Consider using a CD
    player/clock combo so that your child can wake
    to his favorite song rather than a buzzing noise.

    Make sure your child's IEP is up to date
    If you haven't looked at your child's IEP since
    your last annual meeting, go through it and make
    sure that the goals and accommodations listed are
    still relevant. Have your child's needs changed
    since your last meeting? Has she met some of the
    goals listed and is now ready to take on new
    challenges? Remember, you don't have to wait
    for an annual meeting - you can request an IEP
    meeting at ANY time.

    Get your paperwork organized
    While you're thinking about organizing new
    binders, paper and pencils, take a moment to
    evaluate if your own paperwork is in order. If
    you don't already have a system in place,
    download our Guide to Organizing Your
    Paperwork.

    More back to school tips for both parents and
    teachers:

    Back to School Tips

    The Back to School Guide from the Autism
    Community Connection

    Ann Dolin, Director of Educational Connections,
    Inc. has
    provided the following articles and newsletters:

    January 2009 Newsletter

    February 2009 Newsletter

    July 2009 Newsletter  3 Great Strategies for
    Stopping Procrastination This School Year!  

    Why Reading is Not a Natural Process
    By Ann Dolin and Laura Rheinauer

    Picture two students, side by side, reading a
    fairytale from a storybook. One student easily
    reads with expression and enthusiasm, “Once
    Upon a Time”. The other student slowly reads
    “On up a tim.” Both students live in the same
    neighborhood, have educated parents that read to
    them at night, and were exposed to literature at
    a young age. So why can the one read and the
    other cannot? Is it a fairytale story to think
    that reading is a natural process? The answer, is
    yes.     

    Almost 20% of children have a significant
    reading disability that impacts their ability to
    acquire reading through traditional teaching
    methods. Most reading instruction in American
    classrooms is taught through the whole language
    approach where students are directed to
    literacy by focusing on literature, diversity,
    reading groups and motivation. While this
    methodology works with many students, critics of
    the whole language approach state that students
    also need phonics based and specific skill set
    instruction.

    Reid Lyon, the former head of National Institute
    of Child Health and Human Development, makes a
    valid point by questioning why there are so many
    illiterate adults and children if reading were a
    natural process.

    According to a recent article in TIME magazine,
    there are almost 3 million students in special
    education classes specifically because they
    cannot read. Some are dyslexic, others are not.
    In many instances, the student demonstrates
    strong reading comprehension, but there is a
    specific glitch in sounding words out (decoding).
    Because reading is a combination of decoding and
    comprehension, a student’s decoding skills are
    vital to the reading process. To learn to decode a
    student needs to be able to understand that
    individual sounds make up words. Thus, a reading
    disability that is not based in comprehension is
    occurring at the phonemic level. Simply being
    able to recite the alphabet isn’t enough. Children
    need to know that the written letter equates to a
    sound. Weak readers have difficulty perceiving
    various sounds and sound blends, and thus have
    difficulty decoding new words. These students
    aren’t able to pull apart sounds (segment) and
    blend them together. Look at this simple example:
    When we say the word dog, we hear just one
    sound. But when pulled apart, the word dog is
    actually composed of three separate phonemes.
    The D sound, the O sound, and the G sound. To
    truly be a good reader we need to be able to
    segment the three separate sounds rapidly and
    effectively.

    The emergent reader relies heavily on decoding
    phonemes (pulling the sound apart) and then
    instantly pushing the sounds back together. This
    automatic process requires the proper
    neurological wiring. Scientific data points to
    specific neurobiological differences between
    normal readers and those with dyslexia. Three
    specific regions of the brain work in tandem to
    analyze printed word, recognize the sounds in
    that word, and then make the reading process
    automatic. Functional magnetic resonance imaging
    (fMRI) scans show the left inferior frontal
    gyrus, the left parietal-temporal lobe, and the
    left occipital-temporal area are those exact
    regions where the reading process occurs. In
    students with reading disabilities these areas are
    not as highly developed. The National Institute
    of Child Health and Human Development within
    the framework of the National Health Institute
    continues to support research efforts to
    understand and address reading failure.

    Even students that are not at risk for reading
    failure (those raised in poverty, limited English
    proficiency, limited exposure to reading, and
    speech/hearing handicaps) can and do encounter
    reading difficulties. This scientific evidence of
    brain scans show that a glitch in the brain’s
    processing abilities prevents students with
    reading difficulties to effectively and quickly
    decode words. Instead, these students over
    compensate by relying heavily on memorizing
    words. While this compensatory strategy helps
    get kids through a school year, without proper
    treatment, these children flounder as they
    encounter new words.

    So what can be done? Twenty years of research
    demonstrates that we can remediate almost all
    reading disabilities. The most important thing is
    to fist seek help and get a diagnosis. Assessment
    of a student’s phonemic awareness as early as the
    kindergarten level is beneficial so that you can
    have a strong predictor of potential difficulties
    in reading that may be encountered down the
    road. Too often the excuse of a developmental
    lag is given, and that eventually Johnny will
    “catch up”. Statistics state that 76% of students
    with a reading problem never do catch up. It is
    absolutely crucial that reading-related learning
    disabilities do not go undiagnosed and untreated.
    Waiting to seek help can ultimately be even more
    deleterious. Susan Hall who wrote Straight Talk
    About Reading and Parenting A Struggling
    Reader states that if help is given in 4th grade
    rather than in kindergarten when weaknesses
    were first spotted, it will take four times as long
    to improve the same skills by the same amount.
    Once the nature and cause of a student’s
    difficulty is determined appropriate instruction
    to remediate the deficit can be administered, and
    accommodations granted. Children and adults that
    encounter difficulty reading need systematic
    instruction and intervention so that they don’t
    encounter other difficulties in academics and so
    that their emotional well being is not impacted.

    According to the Learning Disabilities Online
    (www.ldonline.org) website, one of the biggest
    indicators of reading comprehension is the
    fluency (speed and accuracy combined) of
    reading single words. Going hand in hand with
    that is the ability to accurately decode those
    single words, which is directly related to
    phonemic awareness and the development of that
    skill. It is therefore essential that reading
    remediation for most students begin at the
    phonemic level. One-to-one reading instruction or
    small group instruction is considered the best
    approach for students with Learning Disabilities.
    Explicit and systematic instruction is the most
    powerful way to improve reading. The focus of
    instruction should be on decoding, fluency, and
    comprehension.
    In the 1930s, Dr. Samuel Orton and Anna
    Gillingham developed an approach to reading, a
    ‘course of action’ if you will, to provide reading
    instruction.

    Instruction can vary from student to student
    based on particular needs, but ultimately, all
    Orton-Gillingham lessons build upon the
    association between the sounds and symbols of
    the English language (letters and letter
    combinations). Starting with the smallest unit of
    sound (phoneme) students practice blending
    sounds to read individual words and bodies of
    text, develop automaticity, isolate certain sounds
    for spelling, read text and focus on
    comprehension, write, and then generalize these
    skills to other applications. The Orton-Gillingham
    approach is multisensory (instruction taps into
    the visual, auditory and kintesthetic domains)
    because this approach aids the processing,
    retention and application of information. Key
    points of the Orton-Gillingham approach is that
    it is diagnostic and prescriptive, direct and
    explicit, multisensory, cognitive, structured,
    synthetic and analytic,
    cumulative, and alphabetic-phonetic. It’s
    important to evaluate a student pre and post
    specialized reading program to measure both
    quantitative and qualitative improvements.

    Scientific evidence proves that reading is not a
    natural process. However, with proper diagnosis
    and treatment, students that are struggling
    readers will be able to open up their books and
    be whisked away to magical lands in far away
    times.

    Great tips for a successful new school year
    (This came from a mom who belongs to a support
    group I'm in.)

    A superhero lunchbox or a fresh box of crayons
    help a lot of kids feel excited about starting
    school again. However, getting used to the school
    routine after a summer break can be challenging,
    especially for kids with behavioral, emotional or
    neurological issues. As an educator working with
    children with autism, I developed these
    strategies to help children ease in to the routine
    with minimal stress. Feel free to adapt for your
    situation — and please share your ideas and
    experiences in the comments.

    1. Take several trips to school in the weeks
    before the first official day. Most schools will
    be open during regular hours for at least two
    weeks before the first day of school. Teachers
    typically use this time to set up the classroom
    and do other preparation activities, while
    administrative staff works on making sure all the
    incoming students are properly enrolled. Call
    ahead to make sure you visit during a good time,
    preferably a time when your child’s teacher will
    be there. Spend a few minutes walking around
    the building with your child, pointing out places
    which will be important to him or her, like the
    library, the cafeteria, the gym, the classroom and
    the playground. Allow your child to look at
    everything, and if you find teachers working take
    the time to introduce them to your child.

    2. Make a picture book about school. Take a
    camera with you on your first visit to your child’
    s school. Take pictures of the classroom and any
    other area where your child will be spending
    time. (don’t forget places like the nurse’s office,
    the drinking fountain and the hallway!) When you
    get home, print out all the pictures and label
    them with your child. Spend a few minutes every
    day looking at the picture book and talking about
    all the fun things your child will do in school.

    3. Ask your child’s teacher for a copy of the
    daily schedule as soon as it’s ready. This is not
    always easy - the first days of school usually
    involve a lot of problem solving about schedules -
    the times your child may go to lunch or special
    area classes, or the times he or she sees
    therapists or special teachers may not be
    finalized until right before school starts. Most
    teachers are more than willing to share the daily
    schedule as soon as they know for sure what it
    will be. When you have it, talk about it with your
    child in detail. Pair it with the picture book and
    point out where each of the schedule items will
    take place. (For example: “The schedule says you
    eat lunch at 12:15 in the cafeteria. This is a
    picture of the cafeteria. Remember when we
    visited, and we looked at the tables, the food
    counter and the cash register? This is where you
    will eat lunch every day at school.”)

    4. Slowly get your child into the routine of doing
    schoolwork. I usually recommend parents take
    some time every day throughout the entire
    summer to work with their children on the skills
    we use at school. Even if you haven’t done this,
    you can still help your child adjust. Start by
    spending five minutes sitting together doing a
    fairly quiet activity your child enjoys, like
    building with blocks, coloring or reading aloud
    together. The next day, shoot for ten minutes of
    uninterupted “focus” time. Keep adding a little
    bit of time each day until your child can focus
    for the length of a typical work time during the
    school day.

    5. Start building a great relationship with your
    child’s team. Get to know teachers, therapists,
    assistants and your child’s classmates by name.
    Establish good lines of communication by getting
    email addresses, phone numbers and other
    contact information for all the people who will
    be working with your child and find the best way
    to have regular conversations with them. As a
    teacher, I always welcomed input, ideas and
    advice from parents - after all, no one knows
    your child better than you do. I know a lot about
    teaching, but parents are the real experts when
    it comes to finding the best way to inspire and
    educate their children. Don’t be afraid to speak
    up and share this expertise - it’s the most
    valuable piece of any planning we do.

    6. Create time in your child’s schedule both
    before and after school where he or she can
    relax and prepare for or unwind from a day at
    school. Turn off the TV or any music, turn down
    the lights and have some relaxing activities your
    child enjoys available. Work to preserve this
    time for your child every day - it provides him
    or her with a guaranteed expanse of time where
    he or she knows what to expect, so it’s likely to
    be a low stress time. As hard as we try to keep a
    regular and predictable routine at school, it’s not
    always possible. School can be a pretty
    unpredictable place, especially to kids who are
    sensitive to change. Providing a comfort zone to
    bookend the school day will help your child
    better deal with some of the unexpected things
    that can happen during the school day.

    7. Have a great attitude about school and it will
    be contagious. Parents have an amazing ability to
    affect the attitude of their kids - showing your
    kids a postive, optimistic view of school will help
    them shake some of the anxiety and apprehension
    that can make transistions so difficult for them.

    8. Include your child as much as you can in back
    to school planning. Take him or her with you when
    you shop for school supplies, and let your child
    make his own choices at the store when you can.
    Making choices builds independence and
    confidence, and having materials he or she picked
    may be very comforting to your child during the
    school day.

    Returning to school can be a great experience
    for your child with a little patience, some
    creativity and good planning. If you have ideas
    or tips that have been successful for you, please
    e-mail them to me and I'll add them to the
    website.

    Start the School Year Right!
    By Ann Dolin, M.Ed

    It’s the beginning of the school year, and time to
    get our children ready for reading,writing and
    arithmetic. But now, more than ever, larger skills
    are the key to academic success. Organization,
    time management and study skills are important
    for children of all ages, and a lack of these skills
    is a real problem. In fact,“chronic
    disorganization is a real disability, just as much
    as a problem with reading, math or spelling might
    be.” (Mel Levine, Professor of Pediatrics at the
    University of North Carolina) Whether your
    child is impacted significantly or just has trouble
    remembering homework from time to time, here
    are some helpful tips:

    • Research shows more is accomplished if
    homework is begun right after school and when
    the hardest assignment is done first.Having a set
    ‘homework zone’with necessary materials out and
    ready alleviates the “I need to find a pencil!”
    problem.
    • Before homework starts, give a short break and
    help prioritize assignments. (What will be done
    first, second, third, etc.?) Check to see if there
    are any longterm assignments.
    • Always utilize a daily,weekly and monthly
    calendar.
    • For children who underestimate the amount of
    time it takes to complete an assignment, use a
    timer.
    • For those who overestimate the time remaining
    to complete a task, set a designated start and
    end time. Reward completion with a privilege.
    • Students of all ages need to have a binder
    system that works for them and their teachers,
    and “binder maintenance” should occur at least
    weekly. Label and file away old materials in a
    reserve accordion notebook that can be easily
    accessed in the future (i.e., for a final exam).

    The battle over homework and organization can
    sometimes become detrimental to the
    parent/child relationship. Many families choose
    to bring in an outside, neutral third party, called
    an Educational Coach, to work on organization
    and study skills across the curriculum. This coach
    can assess your child’s specific learning style,and
    provide strategies on time management,
    organization and effective reading and note
    taking, memory techniques and other study skills.
    Remember that time spent organizing today will
    be time saved tomorrow! Helping your child gear
    up for the school year by setting up effective
    systems early, will help everyone in the long run.

    Ann Dolin, M.Ed is the director of the tutoring
    company Educational Connections, Inc. She
    speaks on the topic of organization and study
    skills, and consults with parents on various
    educational topics. (ann@ectutoring.com)


    Homework Hang-ups?
    Here's Help!
    By Ann Dolin, M.Ed.

    Another school year is beginning. Are your hopes
    high that this year will be less stressful than the
    last one? Were homework battles common in your
    household? Help is on the way! This year can be
    different if simple routines and structures are
    implemented starting the very first day of school.

    Research in The Journal of Family Psychology
    shows that all children, even infants and
    preschoolers, demonstrate better behavior when
    there are predictable routines in the family.
    Believe it or not, children want and need
    routines. A predictable schedule allows them to
    know what to expect and, in turn, they feel safe
    and secure. Routines also reduce parents' stress.
    When there is less drama in the household,
    parents are able to spend more time developing
    healthy parent/child bonds and less time arguing.

    So how can parents develop structure in order to
    dissipate power struggles and homework battles?
    The first thing that we must do is to make
    homework completion a priority. There must be a
    set time for homework each and every day and,
    to do this, children cannot be overscheduled. I
    see so many students in my practice who are
    involved in as many as four or five different
    extracurricular activities. They are harried and
    stressed out, and their parents are, too. Children
    need to have enough time each day to realistically
    complete their work. Twenty minutes squeezed in
    between soccer practice and piano lessons and a
    half-hour after dinner is scattered and usually
    not sufficient. When children are overscheduled,
    they do not have time to devote to their school
    work or unstructured time to "just play."

    Most children need a short break after school
    before getting started on their work; usually not
    more than 30 minutes. However, before your
    child runs out of the house to play with friends,
    have her take the binder, books and assignment
    notebook out of the backpack. One of the
    greatest study skills we can teach our children is
    time management. Work with your child to
    prioritize assignments; 1,2,3, etc. The first
    assignment to be done should be the most
    difficult while the student is still fresh, followed
    by the second most difficult. The last assignment
    should be the easiest. Have your child pull out
    everything that will be needed to begin
    assignment #1 and lay it out in the
    predetermined homework area. Now it's
    playtime, but agree upon the return time. When
    your child returns, she will know just where to
    begin without an argument.

    Timers are great learning tools and can be used
    to break homework up into manageable pieces. If
    a writing project seems overwhelming to your
    child, set the timer for 15 minutes with the goal
    of completing the first step. Stay close by. Many
    children work much better when an adult is
    nearby to help if questions arise. When the
    buzzer goes off, and the goal has been met,
    provide lots of praise and possibly a reward.
    Then set the timer for the next step until the
    work is done. Many students have difficulty just
    getting started, but once they get going, they can
    complete the task. Timers often provide that
    "jumpstart" needed in the beginning.

    Rewards do not have to be elaborate. Many
    children respond to earning tokens that can be
    traded in for something they desire: a visit to a
    favorite restaurant, the latest Game Boy
    cartridge, a movie with a friend or time with
    Mom or Dad. If you're not sure what would
    motivate your child, just ask, but be sure to put
    a financial limit on the reward!

    Most children thoroughly enjoy watching
    television, playing video games and instant
    messaging. For many of these kids, there is no
    greater incentive. It is my belief that this
    "screen time" should be earned. If a student is
    allowed to engage in these activities before
    homework, it can be very difficult to get her
    refocused on educational work. However, most
    children will do almost anything to have these
    luxuries, including homework. Children should
    earn these activities, not be entitled to them.

    What if your child has no homework? Still insist
    on doing something educational during the
    designated homework time. Young children can
    always spend this block of time improving their
    reading skills (see studydog.com, scholastic.com)
    or working on math facts (see aaamath.com,
    multiplication.com). Older students benefit from
    reviewing their notes or working on parts of a
    long-term assignment that may be due in the
    coming weeks. In addition, a lull in the homework
    load is a great time to organize current
    assignments in the three-ring binder and archive
    old ones. The more kids become accustomed to an
    official study time, the easier it will be to
    establish and sustain a routine. This process also
    helps when older students untruthfully insist that
    they have no homework. If we parents designate
    one hour each day for school work (depending on
    age), then our children will know that no matter
    what, they have work to do.

    The key to establishing and maintaining routines
    is consistency. If schedules are followed each
    and every day, then children will know what to
    expect and will likely follow through without
    procrastinating. We are at a perfect time of the
    year to take charge in a positive way. Follow the
    tips below, and you'll be on your way to a
    successful, and less stressful, school year:

    1. Schedule homework time each day, just as you
    would soccer practice, piano lessons or an after-
    school club.

    2.  Try to stick with the same time each day.

    3. Allow for downtime before beginning
    homework, but not more than 30 minutes.

    4.  Before downtime, help your child prioritize
    her assignments for the day, beginning with the
    most difficult one.

    5. Open the book and mark the starting point.

    6. Break assignments into incremental portions if
    work becomes overwhelming; allow frequent
    breaks.

    7. Stick with it! Remember, a routine is not just
    a behavioral strategy, but a way of life.

    8. If outside support is needed, seek out an
    educational coach. An educational coach teaches
    students organization, planning, time management
    and study skills.

    9. Read up on the subject now so that you have a
    definite plan in place when school begins. A great
    book for kids is How To Do Homework Without
    Throwing Up, by Trevor Romain. Parents will
    learn a lot from Ending the Homework Hassle,by
    John Rosemond and Overcoming Underachieving:
    A Simple Plan to Boost Your Kids' Grades and
    End the Homework Hassles, by Ruth Peters.

    Don't forget that it is important for children to
    associate hard work and completion of a task
    with a pleasurable activity. Children are more
    likely to apply themselves if they know that a
    fun activity follows. Above all, don't give up. It
    may be easier to give in to your child at any one
    moment, but insisting on a schedule and making
    homework a priority will make life a lot less
    stressful in the long run.

    Tackling Perfectionism
    By Ann Dolin, M.Ed.

    6 Strategies for Tackling Perfectionism

    1. Lead by example
    Perfectionism can run in families, so be sure to
    model the right behavior when things go wrong.
    For example, let’s say that you’re taking your
    daughter to a friend’s house that you’ve never
    been to before. After taking a wrong turn, you
    end up in a line of traffic that seems to go on for
    miles. Instead of saying, “This is ridiculous. Look
    at this traffic! We’ll never get there in time!”
    say “That’s okay, we’re in some traffic and may
    get there a few minutes late, but I’m sure many
    others are just getting there too.”

    2. De-emphasize grades and competition
    Instead of remarking, "That's awesome you got
    an A", say, "The amount of effort you put in was
    just enough to do well." Let your child know that
    you love him or her unconditionally, regardless of
    grades or academic achievement.

    3. Make a schedule and time limit for HW
    completion
    Oddly enough, many perfectionists are also
    procrastinators. Why? Because they fear failure
    and put off starting until they are “in the right
    frame of mind.” Help your child tackle the
    feeling of being overwhelmed. Agree upon a time
    to get started and most importantly, an end time.
    Let her know when the time is approaching and
    when it does, put away the books. She’s done for
    the night.

    4. Respond to worst case scenario thinking
    Perfectionists are color blind – they see
    outcomes in black and white. They perceive
    success as complete perfection or total failure.
    Help your child to think about other outcomes.
    Ask “What would happen if your teacher didn’t
    agree with one of the points in your essay?”
    Open the dialogue to head off worst case
    scenario thinking.

    5. Do not over schedule
    In a recent study, 85% of high school students
    said they feel over scheduled. Feeling
    overwhelmed can spiral perfectionism out of
    control. Many kids have perfectionist tendencies,
    but can cope with their often unrealistic
    expectations; however, others just need a few
    events to trigger even greater anxiety. Having
    too much on a person’s plate can instigate these
    feelings. Prioritize what your daughter really has
    to do. Can you nix piano lessons or that after-
    school club she just joined? If so, do it.

    6. Lastly, unchecked perfectionism can be the tip
    of an iceberg.
    If you are worried that your child is taking his
    or her quest for exactness too far, contact me
    for a list of local mental health professionals who
    work specifically in this area. I can be reached
    at ann@ectutoring.com.

    4 Ways Our Tutors Help Build Reading Fluency  

    1.  Break Down Big Words with REWARDS
    REWARDS is a research-based program
    designed for students in grades 4 through 12.  It
    helps to solidify multi-syllable pronunciation,
    which is necessary before moving on to reading
    speed.  Before you know it, pronouncing
    disestablishmentarianism will soon be a piece of
    cake with the REWARDS program.

    2. Paired Reading with the Jamestown Fluency
    Series The Jamestown Fluency Series develops
    and strengthens oral and silent reading speed in
    older students.  Our tutors utilize this program
    to increase words per minute by using high
    interest paired reading exercises.  Students will
    enjoy reading more and more as the flow and
    speed of reading increase.   

    3. Timed Reading Drills with Great Leaps The
    Great Leaps Reading Program for K-12 students
    is a program designed to build reading speed.
    Students complete one-minute drills in three
    areas: phonics, sight phrases, and short stories.  
    Just 15 minutes per day makes a world of
    difference.  

    4. Encourage and Motivate Students To Read,
    Read, Read! One of the best ways to develop
    reading fluency is to read more.  By capitalizing
    on each student's personal interests, our tutors
    help find books and authors that will transform
    reading from a chore to an enjoyment.   

    How Many Words Per Minute Should Your Child
    Be Reading?    

    Grade Equivalent                                  Standad
    WPM
    2.5                                                              121
    3.5                                                              135
    4.5                                                              149
    5.5                                                              
    163        
    6.5                                                              177
    7.5                                                              191
    8.5                                                              205
    9.5                                                              219
    10.5                                                            233
    11.5                                                            247
    12.5                                                            
    261       

    Interested in knowing more about your child's
    reading rate, strengths, and areas that may need
    improvement?  Click here for information on my
    reading evaluations.   Please feel free to contact
    me at 703.934.8282 or ann@ectutoring.com.  

    SUMMERTIME AND THE LEARNING IS
    EASY      
    By Ann Dolin, M.Ed.

    If you’re like most Washingtonian parents at this
    time of year,
    you’re relishing the days of summer.  No more
    homework struggles, standardized tests, or jam
    packed afternoons of carting your children to
    and from extracurricular activities.  The summer
    is a time to unwind and relax, but learning should
    not be discontinued.   According to the
    foundation Reading is Fundamental, children who
    do not read over the summer experience a loss of
    reading fluency and comprehension skills.  
    Students who engage in summertime reading
    actually gain skills.  Research also shows that
    students who have not engaged in summer learning
    score lower on standardized tests at the end of
    summer break than they do on the exact same
    test at the end of the previous school year.  In
    math, students lose approximately 2.6 years of
    grade level equivalency over the summer if they
    are not stimulated.  
    Sally Shaywitz, author of Overcoming Dyslexia
    reports that children who score in the top 10
    percent on standardized tests read more than 20
    minutes per day after school.  Over a school
    year, that translates to 1.8 million words read!  
    Students who read only five minutes for pleasure
    score near the 50th percentile.  Sadly, students
    who read a minute or less on a daily basis after
    school hours read a mere 8,000 words per year
    and score in the lowest 10 percent.   It is easy to
    understand why engaging in some type of
    instruction, whether it be structured or
    unstructured, is an integral part of continued
    academic growth.  Parents can play an important
    role in encouraging learning throughout the
    summer months even if their child is a reluctant
    learner.

    MAKE READING A PRIORITY!

    One of the most important gifts you can give
    your child this summer is the ability to enjoy
    reading.  Some children are naturally eager
    readers; however, others would never put the
    words “reading” and “fun” together.  For those
    children, we must pull out all the stops.  It is
    imperative to develop structure and give children
    a choice in what they read.

    The key to motivating reluctant readers to read
    is to find the right series of books that suit their
    interests.  As a parent, you know your child
    best.  What does he love?  If it’s sports,
    subscribe to Sports Illustrated for Kids or print
    out the latest Orioles statistics online.  Perhaps
    your child would enjoy a sports-related book in
    the Matt Christopher series.  Does he want to be
    a veterinarian?  Go to the library and check out
    books on animals.  If your child will only read a
    certain series of books, that’s okay; at least he’s
    reading.  Don’t turn up your nose at your child’s
    choice of books; it can discourage reading.  

    Magazines are often the method that gets
    reluctant readers on the page.  Even magazines
    about video games require reading!  Subscribe to
    magazines like National Geographic World,
    Nickelodeon, Ranger Rick, or Your Big Backyard,
    and put the subscription in your child’s name.  
    Visit www.magazines.com or www.magsforless.com.

    Most children love comic books, which are a
    great way to ease into reading more traditional
    books.  Many novels now come in comic book form
    and kids love them!    

    If your child has a learning disability, get books
    on tape.  If the topic interests him, he may want
    to go online or visit the library for more
    information.  You may want to monitor your child
    while he is listening to a book and to know that
    he isn’t just staring into space.  Children can
    develop fluency and a better sight word
    vocabulary if they are tracking the words along
    with the reader’s voice.

    Schedule a trip to your local library, and sign up
    for the summer reading program.  This program
    may provide you and your child with needed
    structure and accountability.  These programs
    usually reward children who read a certain
    number of books.  Find out how many books your
    child is expected to read and set goals.  If it’s
    four books, then set attainable goals, such as 25
    pages per week or one chapter per day.  Take
    time to make regular visits to the library with
    your child, and remember to select books that
    interest him.

    Set a specific time for reading each day, and
    make it a priority.  Instead of telling your child
    that he has to sit down and read for 30 minutes,
    schedule a family reading time.  Take extra time
    to read aloud and discuss the story with your
    child.  Ask both factual and inferential questions
    to assess his comprehension.

    Encourage not only reading, but writing as well.  
    Help your child to create a family scrapbook of
    summer events using photos, postcards, and other
    memorabilia.  Have him write a caption below
    each entry telling who, what, when, where, and
    why this event was special.  What a great way to
    keep him writing and to have a wonderful
    keepsake from the summer of 2004!

    Have your child correspond with an author
    through snail mail or e-mail.  Their addresses or
    e-mails are usually listed at the back of the book
    and if they are not, their fan club site can most
    likely be found online.  Most writers make a
    point to responding.  

    Use the 2004 Summer Olympic Games in Athens,
    Greece as a teaching opportunity.  Have children
    research a country in which they are unfamiliar
    or one that want to know more about and then do
    some research online.  Travel abroad right here
    in Washington by visiting a restaurant that
    services ethnic foods or tour an embassy or
    museum downtown.  Write a letter to a favorite
    athlete; create a bar graph with medals won by
    each country, or compile information about a
    special story.  Remember the Jamaican bobsled
    team?  

    The summer is also a great time to hone
    keyboarding skills.  Children as young as seven
    can begin getting familiar with the home row
    keys.  Good keyboarding skills are a must for
    children with writing difficulties.  It allows them
    to get their thoughts down on paper quickly so
    that they are able to use technology to
    proofread.  Students can usually edit their
    mistakes more efficiently when they can see
    their ideas in an organized fashion on a computer
    screen as opposed to messy handwriting on
    paper.  For a review of the best software for
    your needs visit www.superkids.com or
    www.reviewcorner.com.

    DON’T FORGET MATH AND SCIENCE!

    Math is often an overlooked part of summer
    learning, but one that can be easily enhanced.  In
    order to be successful in math, students must
    have “number sense”.  That means that they need
    to develop an understanding of mathematical
    concepts and the relationship between numbers,
    not just rote memory for facts. It is crucial for
    children to master the basics before going on to
    more advanced material.  Fortunately, there are
    a multitude of fun and engaging math games and
    activities that help to develop number sense that
    can get almost any learner hooked, even the most
    reluctant one.  

    Board games provide an opportunity for good old-
    fashioned fun with your child and help to build
    mathematical reasoning and computation skills.  
    Games such as Connect Four, Chinese Checkers,
    Checkers and Battleship assist with reasoning and
    logical thinking skills as well as cause and effect
    relationships.  Backgammon, Mastermind, Clue,
    and Chess exercise problem solving, deductive
    reasoning, and higher level critical thinking.  
    Other board games such as Life, Monopoly,
    Monopoly Junior, Careers and Pay Day all
    incorporate money skills into their design.

    Did you know that 60% of parents give their
    children an allowance?  Turn allowances into a
    great teaching tool by helping your child learn to
    budget, spend, and save his earned weekly
    allowance money.  Visit www.kidsmoney.com for a
    host of activities, books, and ideas from other
    parents about what really works.
    Make math more meaningful to older children by
    getting them involved in a simulated online stock
    market game.  Kids are given $100,000 of virtual
    cash and learn how to invest their money based
    on research and current market trends.  These
    games teach a multitude of math skills and the
    value of saving and investing.  Visit http://www.
    msmoney.
    com/2001/12/14/investing_games_for_kids.htm
    for a listing of various games.

    Are you planning to travel to your vacation
    destination by car this summer?  If so,
    incorporate math into your trip.  Travel time will
    go by quicker and kids will practice math skills
    if you play counting games such as “Count the
    Cows”.  Each child counts the number of cows
    they see on their side of the car, but if they pass
    a cemetery, they lose all their cows and have to
    start over.  The person with the highest number
    at the end of your trip wins.  See the website
    www.momsminivan.com for lots of fun driving
    games.

    Utilize free online math games to peak your child’
    s interest in learning basic facts.  Break up the
    monotony of flashcards with interactive games
    such as those on
    www.multiplication.com or www.funbrain.com.  
    Most children need to learn through a
    multisensory approach, meaning that information
    must be given through auditory, visual, and hands-
    on approaches.  Check out reviews of math
    software at
    www.superkids.com for the best program for
    your child.  

    Giving kids a break this summer is essential;
    however, learning should not be lost.  Learning
    can be fun and engaging if you focus instruction
    on your child’s interests.  It’s also crucial to set
    goals and stick to them.  At the beginning of the
    summer, decide with your child what goals you
    both want to accomplish.  Set up a daily or
    weekly schedule so that learning is built into the
    day, just like gymnastics or any other activity.  
    Workbooks, such as the Bridge series, purchased
    at any bookstore or teacher’s store in the area
    provide children with consistent reinforcement in
    all major subjects.

    As the director of a local tutoring agency,
    Educational Connections, I often get calls from
    parents who want to cram two months worth of
    experiences into two weeks at the end of the
    summer in order to get their child ready for the
    fall.  It is really much easier to plan your course
    in June and stick to it.  If you need more
    structure, a tutor may be the way to go.  A
    professional tutor can assess a student’s
    strengths and weaknesses and develop a plan for
    the summer months.  Weekly or biweekly sessions
    should contain the bulk of instruction, but fun
    follow-up family games or assignments can be
    left behind if parents wish to supplement
    lessons.  Regardless of the approach you take
    this summer, the main objective is to enjoy
    learning!

    3 Tips to Stop Rushing!

    1. Discuss expectations BEFORE homework
    begins.
    Identify the homework that your child normally
    rushes through. For each assignment, jot down 2-
    3 requirements on a post-it note and place on the
    desk or table next to your child. For example, on
    a writing assignment, you may list, "proper
    heading, legible writing, and complete sentences."
    By being proactive, instead of reactive, you can
    stop rushing before it happens.

    2. Set up Daily Homework Time (DHT).
    DHT is a specific time each weekday that's
    dedicated to homework, whether your child says
    he has it or not.  Your child will spend a minimum
    amount of time on academically related tasks
    daily. For example, if the spelling homework is
    completed quickly, but 40 minutes are still left
    in DHT, your child could study for a test, work
    on a long-term project, organize her notebook, or
    read.   If your child knows he has DHT for an
    hour, he may be less likely to try to rush through
    an assignment. How long should DHT be?

    Here's a guide:  
    Grade 1: 10 minutes
    Grade 2: 20 minutes
    Grade 3: 30 minutes
    Grade 4: 40 minutes
    Grades 5 and 6: 45 minutes
    Grades 7-12: 1 hour (as a minimum)

    3. Use praise the right way.
    Recognize good effort whenever possible!
    Rewards and praise will result in positive
    changes faster than punitive words or
    punishment. When providing feedback, be sure to
    offer a positive statement first. Follow with
    specific, constructive criticism and finish off
    with another positive comment. For example, 'You
    rushed through this writing assignment!' becomes,
    'I like the way you wrote your heading so neatly.
    I do see that your paragraphs need more
    descriptive details, but overall your essay looks
    close to being done."

    Ann K. Dolin, M.Ed. is the president and director
    of Educational Connections, Inc., a tutoring
    company that provides in-home tutoring services
    to students of all ages in the Washington DC
    area.  For more information, call 703-934-8282
    or
    www.ectutoring.com.  

    Pete and Pam Wright, founders of Wrightslaw.
    com have created The Special Ed Advocate,  a
    free online newsletter about special education,
    legal and advocacy topics. Below are educational
    articles from their site.

    10 Tips for Ending the School Year by Pat
    Howey, Advocate

    Spring is here and the end of the school year is
    fast approaching. Yes, it's IEP season.

    IEPs for Children with Behavior Problems

    IEP Members and IEP Team Attendance

    IEP Tips: What to Do at an IEP Meeting

    What You Should Know about Evaluations
    by Robert K. Crabtree, Esq. from www.
    wrightslaw.com

    Summer School for Advocates IDEA and NCLB
    Rights & Responsibilities

    Tests & Measurements for the Parent, Teacher,
    Advocate, and Attorney

    The following newspaper articles were written
    by Cheryl Feuer Gedzelman, Director of
    Tutoring For Success, Inc. serving Northern
    Virigina, Maryland and Washington D.C since
    1994      

    Homework and Headphones: Multitasking Myths
    (March 2009 Issue of Washington Parent)

    Motivating Your Child in School - Beating the
    Spring School Slump (May 2008 issue of
    Washington Parent)

    Academic Coaching - A New Playing Field
    (August 2007 issue of Washington Parent)

    Help Your Child Become an Expert (June 2007
    issue of Washington Parent)

    Promoting The Love Of Reading (April 2006
    issue of Washington Parent)

    Skills For Social Studies Success (January
    2006 issue of Washington Parent)

    Don't Sweat the Math (October 2005 issue of
    Washington Parent)

    The New SAT and What You Can Do to Prepare
    (January 2005 issue of Washington Parent)

    The New SAT is a Better Test for Students,
    Colleges (September 2, 2004 issue of
    Washington Post)

    Promoting Independence – Using Montessori
    Techniques at Home (November 2003 issue of
    Washington Parent)

    To Tutor or Not to Tutor (September 2002
    issue of Washington Parent)

    Improving Your Child's Geography and Mapping
    Skills (February 2002 issue of Washington
    Parent)

    Learning Curve - When a Tutor Can Help (April
    2000 issue of Washington Parent)

    Exercising Your Mind This Summer (July 1999
    issue of Washington Parent)

    Is Education a Priority in Your Family? How to
    Motivate Teenagers (January 1998 issue of
    Washington Parent)

    Falling Behind in School? Some Tips to Catch up
    and Become More Organized (March 1997 issue
    of Washington Parent)

    Fun With Math (November 1996 issue of
    Washington Families Newspaper)

    Educational Games (March 1996 issue of
    Washington Families Newspaper)

    Whose Homework Is It? (November 1995 issue
    of Potomac Children)

    Motivating Children To Learn (August 1995 issue
    of Washington Families Newspaper)

    Summer Learning (May 1995 issue of Potomac
    Children)

    Let's Get Organized (February 1995 issue of
    Washington Families Newspaper)

    Why Isn't Jainie Reading? (February 1995 issue
    of Washington Families Newspaper)

    Tutoring the ADD Child (October 1994 issue of
    Washington Families Newspaper)

    Language Dysfunction in Children May Be Due to
    Epileptic Brain Activity,  Science Daily

    The Current State in Autism -- Still Tough to
    Treat but Encouraging Progress
    Medscape Pediatrics , 2010-05-03

    When language is blocked, music may offer detour
    Boston Globe.com, April 22, 2010

    Ten Common Mistakes Parents Make During the
    IEP Meeting
    By Matt Foley, M.Ed and DeAnn Hyatt Foley,
    M.Ed., Parents, Lubbock, Texas

    Reprinted with permission from Mr. and & Mrs.
    Foley and Jenison Public Schools, Jenison,
    Michigan, article from The Morning News,
    Fall 1999
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